Why do girls stop answering your phone calls because you haven't had time for them?

Hi,

There are myriad reasons.  One might be self-respect.  If you don't care enough to pay attention, then why should she?  Another might be protection...I mean it's self-preservation.  Who wants to be hurt?  When u have yourself straight, then and only then do u have time to invest in involving another person in your life.  Remember, a couple has twice as much family, and drama to deal with than one alone.  If you truly care, act like it.  Remember, we always make time to do what is truly important to us.  A smart girl, turned woman, knows this.

Im bi so not only am I a girl but I deal with them. I can say that alot of girls can be like that. Their emotional as hell lol but you cant help but love them. Just give it time man.

some gurlz r jus mean dat way...

Dude at the end of the day were all just a bunch of codependent lunatics. Love will make a person do some crazy $#!+. I can see why you may think she found "someone else". However, I think she's just playing hard to get because you didn't give her time. Under any circumstance do not keep blowing her up (calling her/txt) that seems desperate. Write a her a love note... I'm sure there are people on this site who could help. By the by thanks I'm feeling inspired.

She's trying to make you feel how she dealt when you didn't have time for her. She probably still likes you she just wants you to suffer for a while.

I am a girl who would do that but I would like to tell you that she is hurt because she felt neglected and lonely. I would leave her a really well-thought out heartfelt message about how you are sorry, thats what i would od

Same issue i'm hvn with this guy he says he likes me but hmm for sum reason we havent been a date cuz he "works alot"... i love that fact that u are employed but wow u wait a days, weeks, and months to respond. but as soon i disappear u notice im gone. lol

Women need to be noticed... to say the least. but glad u opened up this discussion.

hope that helps!:)

Scoby Jones, heres my piece in this.
I am a girl.
This has happened to me before.
I felt alone.
When a girl has a boyfriend, they give every part of them to their partner.
Everyday they look forward to seeing that one person that makes them happy.
When my boyfriend doesn't have time for me, i feel like nothing will make me happy.
like im losing him somehow.
The pain of it all gets too great sometimes that we cant handle it and try to find something to replace it.
Maybe thats what she did.
Maybe she couldn't handle it.

Most likely she moved on, and dude you should've definitely made the time for her. If she was important to yoyu you would have tried anything to see her get a call for her,hell even hear her breath, but yeah she's most likely gone and you really screwed up

Hi Scoby,

You have to know that us girls think too much. We can think about calling our mom and end up thinking about world domination in ten seconds *grin*. Whenever a guy does not make/has time my overactive imagination asssumes he's just not that into me and I loose interest...so always let her know your interested, keep communicating. Just cause your busy does not mean you can't text. Good luck :)

remember its 33% 33% 34% with God involved! soooooooooo by ourselves thats a 66% even with full effort at the end of the day, you feel me?

Probably because she found somebody who made time for her, or at least communicated with her despite busyness. I mean, we're all busy, man. If you want to keep someone around, you have to treat them like you want them around.